Dusseldorf - It is a nightmare, Marlene P. (name changed) even now, two years after the violent act, are added.
The then 16-year-old must first carnival to celebrate out. It goes from party to party, loud music, dancing, guys. Eventually, she ends up at a Fete, where she knows no one. In this hour something that happens their lives changed forever.
Sex-Gangster mix of student knockout drops into the Coke. A little later she loses consciousness. When she awakens, she knows nothing. Later, it turns out: She's been raped. With consequences. Marlene is pregnant. Panic and desperation take the girl.
In spite of the crime (to this day she does not know who the father is) and the great spiritual need opts Marlene after long conversations with her parents for the child: "I did not mean that it is driven away," she says. "I would have to suffer forever under it." Today, the little Jennifer (name changed) one years old, healthy and focus of the family.
When the young mother asked for maintenance for the child, there is a new shock. An employee of the Social Welfare sends away the now 18-year-old shouts roughly in tone: "Is there no father, there's no application and no maintenance." Reason: "You are not complied with the duty to cooperate. Paternity is not ascertainable. "Marlene P. and her parents are horrified.
The 18-year-old: "After all the terrible things, I've been through this, it was a more terrible humiliation. I was shocked, I'm broken inside. All my agony - all came up again. "
EXPRESS turned Buschhausen Roland, head of the Social Welfare (now Ministry for Social Protection and Integration) is a. Buschhausen considered the issue and came to the conclusion: "A gross error. I asked the staff to task. Of course, the young woman is entitled. We will apologize to her, invite her to a consultation, edit their applications quickly and offer her more help. "
Why did she never reimbursed against persons unknown? "But I did not know anyone at the parties. I do not know who was drugged and raped me. I had a memory lapse, a mental blackout. And I was ashamed to go to the police. "
When the mother learned that she still can apply for child support, she was immeasurably facilitates: "Otherwise, I'll make it but not to raise the child. Thanks, Express! "
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